The controversy *ahem* surrounding the recent lawsuit filed against actor John Travolta has got me wondering: Is there a proper way to reject an unwanted advance? It happens to both men and women in various circumstances and scenarios. Whether as teenagers or adults, and as flattering as they may seem, sometimes these advances can make for some terribly awkward situations. So what happens if the advance comes from someone you see every day -- a coworker, perhaps? Do you go straight to your HR department? Or do you sit the person down and politely tell them that their behaviour is making you uncomfortable? Better yet, what if it happens at work, but with a client who propositions you? Curiosity has gotten the best of me today, and I'm full of questions about this topic. So, dear readers… How do you reject an unwanted advance?